As it works for both of you, there should be no difficulties regarding age difference. You have probably already told her how good she looks in it, as she wears it often. She also might slap me down and tell me to hire a prostitute before dumping me - which I would dread. When we have sex she takes command in bed and she can also be spontaneous in the time and place she chooses a tryst - which leads us onto the request. I guess it's a case of opposites attracting. It certainly adds variety to the lovemaking, and that is a good thing. I would suggest that you raise the subject when you are not in a sexual situation, so that you can gauge her reaction when you ask her without running the risk of being rejected. Even though I've had previous girlfriends, I'm still learning the rules of engagement with women, whereas she is outgoing and confident, and as an older woman has a worldly intelligence I'm drawn to. I think it is perfectly reasonable for you to let her know about your desire to make love while she is wearing her leather jacket. One day, we were in Stephen's Green and she pulled me into her embrace and I was overwhelmed with a desire for her that I never felt with another woman. If anything, my dilemma centres around whether it's a reasonable request in the first place to ask of a girlfriend, given the practical and physical conditions and whether she would get the wrong idea in terms of what I think of her. When I first met her, we seemed to click almost straight away and because she was and is really attractive- looking I wanted to impress her. The first time I saw her wearing it, I felt a really strong sexual frisson from her. So sometime when you are out and about, or having a drink or a coffee, you should tell her that you have often fantasised about what it would be like to make love while she is wearing the jacket.