Honestly though, for me it was a huge deal. Although this will vary with every couple, a new study gives some insight into how long most people wai t — and it might be longer than you think. Maybe you've boned every date by the third date, or maybe you haven't even kissed yet, whatevski. I liked talking about it instead of rushing into Sex too soon like I have done before. If you feel comfortable letting it go on the first date, then do that. This is a power move. I have dated a 35 yr old, 49,55,63 yes I am open minded and now a 52 yr old. We did talk about sex and our past experiences. According to the survey, people should wait five months to discuss income with their partners and nearly six months to ask their credit score Americans also feel you should wait 5. More than half of Americans think it is never okay to share your partner's toothbrush The survey says suggests that it should take about five weeks and four days before talking about politics, five weeks and three days before discussing religion, six weeks and five days before revealing views on abortion and eight weeks and three days before bringing up an ex-partner. But the good news, at least if you're a millennial, is that you may be waiting a little less time to see if there will be a second date. When you like someone, you like them. I'm seeing other people right now, but I really like you, and I'd rather wait to have sex until we are only seeing each other. This website could definitely be helpful. Reply Lea Stoler June 8, , Going out with him tonight and Saturday nights. But who decided that pervasive norm?