If a man found his wife was not a virgin when they got married, he could kick her out. She could not go back to live with her parents because it was such a humiliation. Some Asian women when dating often take the principle of crying in a Mercedes is better than laughing on a bicycle. It is important to make a good first impression, otherwise continuing the relationship with the parents in tow will be difficult. My current girlfriend views marriage as an impossibility, though she's falling pretty hard for me to be fair, I like her a lot too. Not all, but some. Many women here are also quite flat-chested, but you can find women who are well-endowed — my current girlfriend has B-cups and a good butt to go along with her tiny waist, and my architect girl had perfect C-cups and a waist I could practically wrap my fingers around. Me, I speak virtually no Chinese: Know that you are in it for life time before asking a chinese to marry you. So guys, be patient when dating a Chinese girl: And for the record, they seem to be having pretty high libidos according to men who have dated them. All in all, China's worth a look if you have the time and the finances and the inclination to get over here. The topic is a perennial favorite on Chinese forums and Weibo. She maybe suspects, but doesn't really realize it outright until I point out to her the things that they're doing. In addition, a surprising number of Chinese women are actually quite tall — much more than you'd expect based off what you see abroad. These values have been passed on by generations.