Beneath the veneer of education and open-mindedness, far too often lurk the remnants of a conditioning that merrily upholds men and women to different standards of "morality". A few days later he left a marriage proposal on my voicemail! While some are keenly aware of how petty and regressive, not to mention intrusive, this line of questioning will make them sound, there are those that couldn't care less about how they come across. After taking a couple of calming breaths, I asked him what gave him the idea that I was going to have sex with him on our date. While spending a weekend in Dubai I met a nice guy from India and spent most of the weekend with him. Here are some helpful things to keep in mind. The kind who is an adult, and capable of exercising her agency. Apple or android, Mumbai or Delhi, beef lover or cow saver, almost everyone wants to know: Frankly, I was pissed! And more importantly, it can't be used against you later. I still had a few other shocking experiences though. But when I finally did I had a much better experience. But if anyone asks me how many men I've dated or slept with, I will not answer. Most of the men I spoke to swore they weren't affected by their partners' past, but scratch the surface a little and uncomfortable truths come tumbling out. She slept with him before they were married. Don't ask me why, but I stayed with him for six years. You know, the kind who will not clutch her virginity to her chest, to be preserved carefully until it is time to take it along to the husband's home like some kind of prized offering.